Compatibility Guide

Explore all 16 combinations across 4 attachment styles. Understand your relationship with someone you care about.

Compatibility Matrix (tap for details)

Partner → You ↓
securebenevolent
Secure
anxiouspreoccupied
Anxious
avoidantdetached
Avoidant
disorganizedfearful
Disorganized
securebenevolentSecure
★★★★★★★★★★★★★★★
anxiouspreoccupiedAnxious
★★★★★★★★★
avoidantdetachedAvoidant
★★★★★★★★★
disorganizedfearfulDisorganized
★★★★★★★★

★5=Excellent / ★1=High Risk

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