Love & Relationships
Love, relationships, solitude, anxiety — deep dives into building better connections, grounded in psychology and philosophy.
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Love Is an Art
Erich Fromm argued that love is not a feeling that happens to you — it's a practice requiring will and skill. What are the four elements of loving?
From Erich Fromm's 'The Art of Loving'
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What Is Limerence?
Can't stop thinking about them? That might be limerence — Dorothy Tennov's term for the obsessive early stage of love, distinct from mature love.
From Dorothy Tennov & Helen Fisher's research
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Turning Solitude into Strength
Solitude and isolation are not the same. Anxiety isn't the enemy — it's a signal. A guide to inner freedom for the modern world.
From Kokami's 'Lessons in Solitude and Anxiety', Becker, and Winnicott
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The Four Relationship Killers
From Gottman's 30,000-couple research: the four communication patterns that reliably predict relationship breakdown — and how to counter each one.
From John Gottman's 'Why Marriages Succeed or Fail'